{"id":2199,"date":"2007-06-03T01:31:19","date_gmt":"2007-06-03T05:31:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.brianarner.com\/weblog\/wordpress\/2007\/06\/eharmony_discri\/"},"modified":"2007-06-03T01:31:19","modified_gmt":"2007-06-03T05:31:19","slug":"eharmony_discri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.brianarner.com\/weblog\/2007\/06\/eharmony_discri\/","title":{"rendered":"eHarmony Discrimination"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.boston.com\/business\/technology\/articles\/2007\/05\/31\/eharmony_sued_in_california_for_excluding_gays\/?p1=MEWell_Pos3\">This<\/a> is interesting:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The popular online dating service eHarmony was sued on Thursday for refusing to offer its services to gays, lesbians and bisexuals.<br \/>\nA lawsuit alleging discrimination based on sexual orientation was filed in Los Angeles Superior Court on behalf of Linda Carlson, who was denied access to eHarmony because she is gay.<br \/>\nLawyers bringing the action said they believed it was the first lawsuit of its kind against eHarmony, which has long rankled the gay community with its failure to offer a &#8220;men seeking men&#8221; or &#8220;women seeking women&#8221; option.<br \/>\nThey were seeking to make it a class action lawsuit on behalf of gays and lesbians excluded from the dating service.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I&#8217;m not gay or lesbian, so I won&#8217;t be joining Ms. Carlson&#8217;s suit.  But in a way, I feel her pain.  You see, I too have been the victim of eHarmony discrimination.<br \/>\nLike every other TV viewer, I&#8217;ve been bombarded with advertising promising those who enter the eHarmony domain with a soul mate, the love of their life.  Not being in possession of either, I decided to check it out.  I registered  under a fake name (don&#8217;t want the dating police coming after me) and proceeded to take the &#8220;Relationship Questionnaire&#8221; to discover what kind of social creature I am.<br \/>\nThe Relationship Questionnaire was fairly extensive&#8211;several pages of questions regarding different dimensions of my personality.  As is often the case with these kinds of tests, I didn&#8217;t fit its multiple choice mold very well.  But I did the best I could, sometimes choosing the least bad answer.<br \/>\nFinally I reached the moment of truth&#8211;the feedback which would set me on the course toward relationship bliss.  But alas, it wasn&#8217;t to be.  Instead I felt the sharp pangs of rejection as I read that eHarmony was unable to match people or my personality type with anyone else.<br \/>\nWow, who knew?  It&#8217;s difficult to find a match for my personality?  That&#8217;s the kind of problem which could prompt someone to seek help from a website . . . or something.<br \/>\nSorry to hear of your problem, Ms. Carlson.  But you don&#8217;t have to be gay or lesbian to excluded from the eHarmony community of happy relationships.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<a href=\"http:\/\/www.brianarner.com\/weblog\/2007\/06\/eharmony_discri\/\" rel=\"bookmark\" title=\"Permalink to eHarmony Discrimination\"><p>This is interesting: The popular online dating service eHarmony was sued on Thursday for refusing to offer its services to gays, lesbians and bisexuals. A lawsuit alleging discrimination based on sexual orientation was filed in Los Angeles Superior Court on behalf of Linda Carlson, who was denied access to eHarmony because she is gay. 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